
Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon met in 1950, became lovers in 1952, and moved in together on Valentine’s Day 1953 to an apartment in San Francisco. Both activists, they cofounded the Daughters of Bilitis, the first social and political organization for lesbians in the United States. Together, they were president and editor of The Ladder, the regular publication of the organization. Later, they became the first lesbian couple to join the National Organization for Women. Del and Phyllis worked together to form the Council on Religion and the Homosexual, an organization to persuade ministers to accept homosexuals into churches. The eventual goal was to decriminalize homosexuality in the late 1960s and early 1970s.
Del and Phyllis married on February 12, 2004, just one day after same-sex marriages were declared legal. It was the first ceremony of its kind to take place in San Francisco. However, the marriage was voided by the California Supreme Court just six months later. They married again in 2008 when the California Supreme Court changed the ruling. Sadly, Del died from complications related to a bone fracture just two months later.
Phyllis Lyon passed away in April 2020 at the age of 95.








